Understanding Introvert ed children's emotional states and how to deal with them





                                 



Today's talk is about understanding the emotional states of introverted children and how to deal with them. We are discussing about introverted children, so first we should know the meaning of the word introvert.





 What does that mean? 

          These kids are very quiet, shy and do not feel like going out with everyone in public they like to spend time alone more introverted kids often hr.s naut re Known as introverts In our society, kids and even adults are viewed in a different way than introverts get in in our society extroverts dominate in public places. Extroverts are seen as more confidentin society.

              About 40 percent of our population or population but introverted society thinks it's a weird thing to be an introvert. Parents are always confused about what will happen to them at school, how they will advance in their careers, but most importantly, the idea that only extroverted boys and girls can advance in life and introverts cannot. They love being alone. Just because they can not do anything in a crowd does not mean they can not thrive in life. You keep your self-confidence. Such children or adults know themselves very well. 

         


They are aware of their own weaknesses. Such children should never be coerced or coerced into anything, they do more harm than good, i.e. they do not want to play with everyone, but after being coerced by parents or others, he went to play, but he did not escape into all there. Unpleasant incidents can also happen, so one should direct such children to the areas where they ski, like if someone likes to paint, if someone likes to read. You should not belittle or compare yourself to others in front of everyone or other friends. When a guest comes into the house, it is not right to belittle your son or daughter in front of everyone, or to talk less, socialize less, discuss it with others, or compare your child to someone else's child. In it they suffer from a lot of inferiority, it is never possible that suddenly your negative behavior will make him talk too much or socialize with everyone and instead your child will become lonelier inside. He will feel that his parents do not understand him, it is never right to talk about him, father and mother should always take care of this aspect. Parents should insist on reading and reciting storybooks to such children or adults as well. 

                  Suchc children should never be forced into anything. It does them more good than bad, that is, they do not want to play with everyone, but because of the mating of parents or others, he went to play, but because he is not with everyone, any unpleasant incident can happen towards such children there are skills like W someone likes to draw, someone likes to read books, they should develop in that direction. It's not okay to belittle them or compare them to others in front of everyone or other friends.   

                   


  When a guest comes into the house, it's never okay to belittle your son or daughter in front of everyone, or to argue with others about talking less, socializing less, or belittling your child by teasing your child with the child of one compare to others. Because they suffer from inferiority complex, it is never possible for your negative treatment to suddenly cause them to talk too much or meet up with everyone, instead your child will become lonelier inside. He will feel that his parents do not understand him, it is never right to talk about him, father and mother should always take care of it. Parents should insist on reading and reciting storybooks to such children or adults as well. Because they are introverted, they cannot stand on any stage or attend any event. But if we value his choice of work, he'll prioritize his own talent as much as he does. 

         


When an activity can be done in small groups. Then many changes will be seen in such children. That means if we ask him a question in front of 40 kids, he will hesitate to answer even if he knows the answer. 

           


 But if we form a group of 4 and discuss something, this child will gradually react. Such children should be given some time, that is, they should not be rushed, forced, pressured, they need time, as they grow older, they will gradually come into contact with everyone, even if they are not extroverts. A lot will change. 

                 So instead of trying to make the child extrovert, help them grow up with the nature they were born with. Even your introverted child may one day take his or her place in society



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